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3 weeks past due..........

Thursday, June 26, 2008
I am not a fan of people that don't keep up with there blogs and now I stand before you humbled as I have become one of those people. I have been meaning to blog for the past three weeks I promise, I have had so many different ideas, but just haven't found the time for it. In typical RJ fashion this blog is going to touch on a lot of points and be a collection of scattered thoughts. So here's the update for all of you that care:

In the past 3 weeks a lot has happened, the biggest of them being me moving. About 2 weeks ago I moved in with some friends Paul and Jerry. I have been in sort of a "pinch" and this move has been the light at the end of the tunnel that I have been needing to see for a long time. Besides the fact I will be saving quite a bit of money each month I really feel like this move has and will continue to give me so much more. On the surface everything is great, the house is awesome, we have a pool, a very cool dog Bailey, and it's in a great location. Digging a little beneath the surface I feel like I am getting so much more from moving in the house. The past couple of months have been hectic and as a result I have kind of put God on the back burner. A couple of days ago I remembered something Brad has said, "Which is bigger your god or your problems?". Just saying it in my head was something I needed to hear because it kind of made me re-evaluate my situation and switch gears. Paul has been growing in his relationship with Christ for awhile and has such passion about, that I feel I will really be able to benefit from living with him. He has already started to help and I am excited to put my focus back on God and watch my life get better as a result of putting my faith in Christ rather than my problems. Also just having roommates again I know will have a positive affect on me. Already I am benefiting from living with genuine people.

It seems like most of my time has been going to work this month. Like most people I have been pushing hard this month to try and get myself out of this whole I have been digging since the beginning of the year. July is shaping up to be my best month ever. Going to be trying a couple different marketing strategies and am anxious to see how well they work.

I did get to see my pal Alison for a couple hours this month too and that was really cool.

I'm still in the process of getting settled and feel that I will be soon. July is shaping up to be an unbelievable month on many different levels. I really feel like July will be life changing and I am ready to meet it head on and go with the flow.

On the 3rd I get to head down to Mexico with a cool group of people to build a house for a family. I'm still digesting the fact that I get to go help a family that doesn't have much and give them a gift that impacts their life almost more than anything. I feel very lucky and privileged to be able to do this. It will be great to see how God moves in all of us while we are down there. I really hope, and don't really have a doubt, that I will take so much away from this trip.

I have so many things I have been thinking about and like I said at the beginning of this blog I wrote I have been meaning to blog for the past three weeks, so I will be making it a priority to blog at least once a week on what I have going on in this crazy head of mine.

We live a privileged life and I am so thankful for all my friends and the wonderful people I know that have been there for me and helped me in so many ways. The world is a drought when out of love and I believe this world has been suffering a drought for far too long. What can we do to change this, more importantly what can I do to change this?

Seize the Day

Sunday, June 1, 2008
It is so easy, especially in this day and age, to feel overwhelmed with just about everything. We all feel the pressures of life from time to time, and for me when I do I usually get lazy and kind of "shut down" hoping things will work themselves out. For about the past month that's where I have been, feeling the pressures of life. I basically "shut down" not doing much at work and coming home and doing nothing here. The motivation was there, but i guess I was lacking the drive. Even though I had "shut down" this has been probably the happiest month of my life. In some aspects of my life I have my head on straight for once and let me tell you I should have straightened things out A LOT sooner cause I am more happy than I have ever been. This morning, and like many mornings, I woke up just so happy. Not just happy, but the kind of happy that makes you want to move mountains, paint a masterpiece, or run a marathon because you cannot just sit still, and it clicked. I realize that I cannot just hope these problems and my situation work themselves out. With that said today is a declaration of me taking control and making sure that I have my head on straight in ALL aspects of my life. This means work, fitness, relationships, new business ventures, and everything else. Please feel free to hold me accountable, in fact this me asking you to hold me accountable. Whether it's a comment on this blog, an email, call, or text I'm asking my friends to help me stay on track. I consider myself lucky to have such amazing friends so I just want to say THANK YOU to ALL my friends for everything they have done for me in the past and just being there. Now I'm going to go run in this hot Scottsdale weather.